We would hate to openly admit the truth, but some black women, self included, love anal sex. Anal sex is still unpopular among most women in general but for blacks it is a big deal. There are several main reasons, for this predisposition. a black man’s penis is usually very large, then there is the pain, the nasty thoughts of bowels, and finally the humiliation.
The humiliation is where it started for me. One truth about some black women like myself is recovering from sexual abuse. Like many women in our society, I was sexually abused by both men and women in my family from age 3 until 24. The difference is that white women openly discuss these issues, but within the black community it is largely ignored. ‘Get over it!’ my family used to say. Those words were all I heard.a constantly when I would cr y, beg, and plead before an aunt would wrap her thighs around my neck hitting with a belt to lick her the right way ormale uncles and other relatives having their way with me at the same time. This wwas the way I was introduced to anal sex at age 18.